Life of the Beachboys at Zanzibar

If you are trying to find something about Maasai culture connected to white women, you will find ONLY beautiful stories about beautiful Maasai people and beautiful Maasai culture which will REALLY impress you .  Many ladies having travel agencies with their maasais husbands are offering dream vacation in the bush for big money among the Maasais, describing beautiful life there, how they are getting a lot of love from Maasai people and daily they are adding new videos which have to document great life among the Maasais full of love and respect.  But then you can find this blog and of course you will ask yourself. What's going on here ? After all what is written in this blog and after all what you can read from influencers having thousands of followers on Instagram, Youtube or TikTok it's very clear for everyone to understand that someone is lying .  Or at least someone is very quiet about the whole the truth from the Maasai boma. Now the question is WHO is that one? Author...

Children and world of Maasai is next topic you need to know to be able to understand YOUR SITUATION in your  "great and lovely relationship" with a Maasai beachboy. Or with a maasai in general. And you also need to understand the situation to know - which kind of father you are going to give to your child once you will start to think about the pregnancy with a Maasai.  All the Maasais you can meet at Zanzibar are married already . All those beachboys in the age between 20 - 35 are married, some of them have already second wife and all of them have children in the bush. Also having children in Europe is not rare case,  but you will never know. Maasai will not tell you what you don't need to know. Having a wife and children is exactly that kind of information. As the Maasai "wallet" you really don't need to know if he is married or not and how many children he has. Maasais have already family in the bush, they already have a wife or wives. They don't ne...

There are many myths and legends about the deity in the community of Maasais. But how much Maasais believe in the God today and how much they are scared to be punished by God for crimes they are doing? This article will be all about this topic. First few words about the myths and legends: By tradition the Maasai are monotheistic tribe - what means they believe only in one God - the Engai. It is neither male nor female. And for the Maasai tribe the Engai is the creator of EVERYTHING.   Maasais use many different names for Engai - the God; " Oloikurrukur " - what means "my thundering one" "Magilani" - what means "powerful knowing one" "Olaidimani" - what means "that one who is able" "Natii ilakir" - what means "where the stars are" The Maasais believed that the home of the Engai is high in the sky, on specific mountains around the area where Maasais were living (region of Arusha).  The most famous mou...

When I was beginning to feel my relationship with a Masai it wasn't so healthy at all and he hit my limit with constant problems at home, that all needed money, I decided to write him a letter. I wrote it the way I would write to an intelligent man (around 10 years) younger  than me. After completing the letter I suddenly became aware of the inevitable. That there is no point sending this to him, because he could never understand nor care, if he even could read it. Yes, reading my own letter finally made me understand, that a Masai just could not care less. At that moment I was out. The illusion fell into ashes and I was free of everything connected to him. Here's my letter to a Masai who used me for money: My dear Masai. I am a mature woman, so many things you find so important are irrelevant to us who have seen life and you can't possibly understand the way I see those stories you are telling me. I won't tolerate nonsense! There are problems in every country far more...

Maasais are part of the old culture , which has exact rules and widely expected behavior. They are trying to follow their old tradition until today. In the past, every age set had special function . Today things partly has changed (not only because of maasais - but also because of globalization) and the warriors no longer perform their original tasks .  Today, the Maasais do not face original dangers anymore, that's why the original role of warriors is just only history. Status of warrior is defined in the day of special ceremony called Eunoto. The only serious condition for participation in the ceremony today is male  circumcision , every warrior must complete it before ceremony. The decision is up to father, he will decide which time his son becomes to be a Maasai warrior. The circumcision itself is not nice experience , it's hurting, the young boys cannot express any pain, any feeling of fear or suffering in face, they need to stay strong during whole the process of cu...