A beautiful white woman. Smart one, high intelligent, educated. Rich. In the best age. And still she can fall to the bottom of the hell with beachboy.
After reading all the incredible stories from you, we are really speechless and always we are just asking. HOW IS THIS EVEN POSSIBLE? How something so absurd could ever happen? How she can be controlled and manipulated by beachboy who even can't sign. It has to be just a BLACK MAGIC :)
There are many stories about black magic deep in the African bush. There are stories about witch doctors who can help beachboys to hunt and catch white woman. And then control her. Of course they need to pay for it. But white woman will pay much more.
For many of us, all these stories are not anything than fairytales. But someone can believe in it. We are not any experts for black magic and to be honest, we don't have any real experiences with that but it doesn't mean it's not happening there. Maybe yes. Then you can do something how to protect yourself. Use the powerful stones, or make some rituals, pay also witch doctor, who will clean you and your house, never wear anything from beachboys on your neck, legs or wrists. Burn everything from them. Fight with all that magic with your own power. But still, there is also other reason why beachboy can catch you easily. Much more simple than black magic.
The basic psychology.
We can be beautiful, young, smart and high educated. We can be rich. We can be married. We can have families out there, good jobs and success but still, we can have injuries deeply inside of us. The injuries which are not healed since our childhood. The injuries from our current relationships, when we don't get all what we need. And beachboys can use all these against us. They will use it to catch us, to manipulate us in the way which can really look like a magic.
What is important to say - they really know HOW. They know what to do, what to say, how to give us what we don't have and what we miss in our life. But it's not real gift. It's an illusion. They are giving us only illusion. Nothing what they are giving us is real and sooner or later, every one of us will understand. They are telling us, what we need to hear. They are touching us, where we need to be touched. They are promising us, what we need to have.
No black magic behind, just simple psychology.
Who knows where the truth is.
One way or another, we need to find a solution, how to protect ourselves. We may not allow them to manipulate us and destroy our lives. It's only up to us. We should start now...
I think the reason some Western women look for Maasai husbands or boyfriends has to do with the illusion of the noble savage, a simple and carefree lifestyle where you are in touch with nature and things are not so complicated. The modern lifestyle can become overwhelming, and then you can try to live in a fantasy to escape it.
ReplyDeleteBut then the Maasai culture has so many issues and for a Western woman it's not easy at all to adapt to it. Sure, it's all fun and games to be young and carefree on the beach exchanging compliments and professing love, but it's totally different to live in a Maasai boma with several other wives and no rights...
I know some couples that live a more modern life, and not in the boma, but for most Western women marrying a traditional Maasai and living in their terms I think the illusion will wear off at some point. And that is for "normal" relationships, excluding the cheating and lying.
Oh, you better believe there is magic involved! Of course it's also psychological, unhealed trauma etc., but there is definitely lots of magic and witchcraft happening... I never believed in any of it until I moved to Africa, but after 2 years here I know 100% this is real. So yes protect yourselves at all costs. and if you think strange and inexplicable things are happening, take care!
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